According to the medical examiner, her body was found at 3:45 a.m. Instead her family, friends, and fans are mourning the loss of her life.ĭays after Ames (birth name: Mercedes Grabowski) suffered the wrath of cyberbullies, she was found dead in a public park hanging from a rope. Nominated for multiple awards, including the coveted AVN Female Performer of the Year, Ames should be planning her red carpet attire for the 2018 AVN Awards in January-it is, after all, the Oscars of porn.