On the condition of anonymity, MV has agreed not to reveal their names. Now that we have the definition and qualifiers out of the way, what follows are the responses from 10 straight guys who share why they’ve gone gay for the day – with pay! We’ve seen this in numerous studies, including recent research involving men living in rural settings that engage in “bud sex”. Additionally, many people feel labels tend to box them into certain stereotypes. Researchers believe that human sexuality generally runs across a spectrum that is both complicated and diverse. In other words, people go by what feels most comfortable to them. Such activities can include but are not limited to:īefore we continue, it’s important to state that men who use labels like “straight” as a descriptor do so because that is what they’re comfortable with. When a man who identifies himself as straight engages in some type of sexual activity with another man, it is commonly referred to as gay for pay.