In the hotel I used the Wifi and my laptop to search him on google and found his Facebook, Linkedin, Instagram, and his Tumblr. What started out as a trip to a new city to help care for someone turned into pretty hard sex, and afterwards he put me in a hotel because his family was making a ‘last minute appearance’ out of concern before he started treatment and he didn’t want them to think he was ordering people off the internet to care for him without asking them for help first. “Tl DR: I had sex with a man who told me he was terminally ill. In a weird place emotionally and not sure what to do. I flew out to “care” for him and he basically kicked me out of his house after I slept with him.